6 Fool Ek Maaalin

My childhood and adult hood have been spent in nuclear families with my mom being the only female with me in our home  before marriage and my daughter after marriage! Ofcourse 3 to 4 female house helps use to visit us regularly for cleaning  mopping ,washing and chopping  ! With Covid 19 corresponding with my mother in law s chemotherapy and my own mom , my inlaws  my sister in law ( to take care of her mom) ,my college bound daughter 24×7 now home and an Attendant for medical chores of my mother in law aswell as myself first time with no house help aid and 9 people to cook for and wash utensils for ,it was a very thrilling, exciting, amazing and compromising situation! A complete test of mindfulness, sincerity,hardwork ,calmness and living in present moment with only careful words coming out of mouth and smiling emotions in face( was quiet tough to hide emotions) ! Each woman was expecting different food ( deep fried,  boiled ,different grains,  bland ,crispy or spicy) ,at different timings ( one s lunch time was other s b.fast time) ! Each was different size from 55 to 90 kgs ,different age from 20 to 73 ,different culture from u.p to Punjab and different habits ( some s purpose of life was tasty food and other s great figure)! How I managed these cute ,complaining, complicated women ,only Swamiji knows! I kept listening to his you tube discourses and washing utensils and cooking! It’s not that I never lost my patience or dint use harsh words or expressions but I realized it immediately and seeked forgiveness from co existent Fools! After all I was there Maaali ! And issi baat pe bjaaaao Taaali.