Why death ? Why living a life of consciousness where you cry for yourself and others , love , eat , hate ,talk,walk and so on and so forth with yourself and others and then suddenly going somewhere, where you are not conscious of this world , life you had , people you lived with etc.. ( you know what iam trying to say … DEATH ).
This is an inevitable experience one sees around in life (loosing someone in life) which makes me think , can’t their be a way where every one knows who they are , What will happen to them and others around them after they have gone ? Why has GOD has kept this experience of death a Mystery where you and only you will know what Is on the other side of it .
You can’t come back and tell your loved ones what is reality of death and you can’t take this truth with yourself to your next life. Your next life is again a new starting and a new end without any connection with past. ( but this is not true , their is a connection) .

Their is a possibility and their is a reason why GOD has made this world the way it is . This world or experience of life is never made to be PERFECT . This is the 1st truth that was discovered by GOUTHAMA BUDDHA ( Dukham Dukham sarvam dukham ) . So never ever expect that life will be perfect , it won’t – not for you, not for any one else . We all have to learn to accept the truths of life. And get away for the inevitable fear of DEATH . Every living being will have fear of death ,fear of loosing everything that he has created and experienced. And he tries to become immortal by reproducing , by creating or doing some thing which makes him to be remembered by others . Their is a saying that you will die completely on that day when the last person in this universe is dead who knows you. ( But this is not TRUE because you don’t know the reality of your self , who you actually are )

(This is my truth that I have discovered after loosing some one and contemplating about death for many years and after having sleep less nights with storms of questions and thoughts ,but few days back when I was listening to a discourse of Bhagwad Geeta I have found the answer to my question)

First of all we have to know who we actually are :- That I am the infinite awareness , consciousness, bliss…. ( every one can know but only some can experience it )
You Can refer to swami sarvapriyananda vedanta talks , even school going kids can understand .

Then,

We all have atleast seen how a golden chain is made of . First the chain is made in to a small straight pieces, then a round shape is given to that and then it is melted / welded / joined at the ends . Then another pieces is passed into and then round shape is given to that and then welded again … notice process of welding is must here if this is not done then your precious gold chain will break off from that small gap and you will loose it for ever …
This process of welding and making each part independent of other, yet one with other is necessary to make the chain strong and perfect…

Similarly,

Each and every part of the chain , that single round piece of that entire chain is our life that we are experiencing this movement . Like their are many rings in the chain their are many life’s to our soul and that welding part which is DEATH which joins our 1st day and or last day in this world into infinite.This welding of DEATH will never allow our present life to flow into next life. All that we experience in this life cannot be taken into other . We can’t remember what , where and how many times that piece of gold has been bended to make it round. That experience is just for this piece (this life) only and then next new piece (next life ) will come and then next and so on….

We need not feel depressed of this fact because the truth is you are not that single piece of gold , your true nature is GOLD itself , each and every piece is of gold and infact it is just gold and nothing else, we just have given it a name ( sometimes we call it gold ring , gold necklace etc.) But their is only gold moulded in different forms , just like how our awareness or consciousness is moulded in waking , dreaming and deep sleep . Our reality is just only one reality and that is infinite awareness consciousness bliss and every thing else shines within this…

All iam saying is DEATH is neither end nor starting of any thing it is just a small part of the entire process. We can only let go of ‘ fear of death ‘, only if we know the reality…. if one can experience the reality then they are experiencing BHRAMAN it self .. (noo noo… I just know the reality but haven’t experienced it : )

OM NAMAH SHIVAYA