Dealing with Your Haters

           Recently somebody hurted me by her as usual harsh language.  It was on my shoot.  As usual .I was not prepared for that sentence. She is a quite senior actress and also she is famous for her arrogant behavior.  Two /three years back she also completed a daily show with me and that was for more than a year. That time also she was rough but she nvr behaved badly with me.  But this time it was different.  I don’t know what was in her mind and suddenly she told me to commit suicide like such n such actor. The way she told I could feel her hatred, the tone of her language everything.  My reaction  was obviously…I was speechless first. Like a fool as generally I am ..I didnot know what to reply .yes..I was hurted. More pathetic was that ..Recently one actor aged 59 years old commited suicide due to his family problem. But the late actor was very famous and people loved him always for his politeness, lovely gesture and immense talent. So this lady gave his example and I really do not know why she told me that. 

•                I  discussed it with the producer, and channel and I also put this question in the question section of os.me. wel .. I got really beautiful answers from Komal ji and Pawani ji. Thank you very much for inspiring me and motivating me. Though we are in our spiritual journey,  I realize that sometimes it is hard to deal with situations  no matter how well you manage. I mean it is really complicated to deal with toxic people. Out of the blue moon they react. And you being vulnerable and clear really don’t know how to handle with them. This world is full of these kind of people. It is true that we can not change them in our limited power no matter how good we try to be. It does not work. So I feel it is best to ignore and avoid them. Now my problem is that  she is my co actor and she is also senior. In this case I can not avoid her completely.  So I have decided in front of camera I will be professional.  But after that I will simply aloof myself . Should I greet her with namastey gesture as I used to do? I think it is yes.  I also don’t want to disrespect her. So I will give her namastey when next time I meet her. Please suggest and guide me dearest family…much love..