Who is the only person we have control over?

Think for a moment and answer will come.

Yes you are right, only person you have control over is you yourself.

It has taken me a lifetime to discover this fact.

It pains me to see so many people are unhappy and resign to fact that they will always be unhappy.

Because we think that our happiness depends on lot of external factors

We think it depends on people close to us, how they treat us, what kind of relationship we have.

We think it also depends upon material accumulation we have collected.

In my experience money and happiness have a direct relation only up to a degree only.

For money is needed to make this body live comfortably.

After that it only depends on one factor that is what kind of relationship you have with yourself.

And this is good news for you are the only person you can work upon and change and mould into what you want it to be.

And this is also kind of bad news, for it is most difficult thing to do.

For we become rigid with age and it really requires effort to change our self from our core.

But once done you will find that results are immense.

Thank you for your patient reading and please share your views on the topic.

Jai Shri Hari.