Life when You Are Born in a Family of a Special Need Adult

As soon as you gain concious thinking and u realise the family and care givers in your family are not providers but need your physical and emotional care! What do u do?

You are too young and novice yourself but you become a care giver over night!

Is this desirable? Not living as a normal functional family who go for outings,movies , functions and trips you are busy just managing the basic functions of a house hold with a special ability family member in it.

Will we abandon the family or send the member to an asylum, disability center or special need rehabilitation?

If it’s our first blood relation we may get frustrated, irritated or disheartened and keep questioning God why me but then our soft,kind and concerned self will do nothing but care and be most loving and  considerate for this special need member.

Now let’s read all the above as Getting married in a family which has a Partner, mother in law , father in law, sister in law or brother in law with emotional disability.

They have no control on their tounge,words, emotions, facial expressions or reactions.

Should we leave them,teach them a lesson by being as agressive and argumentative and keep proving our innocence and intentions?

They are having Special needs understand.

They are mentally not as capable.

What to do then . Please read above second para graph and u have a user manual.