When Your Dad Hits Your Financialy Dependent Mom

I don’t feel like living! Please pray i die soon, Please wish my daughter dies too, this was a message from my AIIMS co Sevaite Nidhi a few weeks back!

Nidhi is a very pretty and financialy extremely comfortable lady with no apparent loans, responsibilities or worldly troubles.

With 2 i phones, 4 luxurious cars which are chauffer driven, a body loaded with diamonds,a mind which keeps seeking therapist advice,an intellect looking for answers doing Satguru spiritual courses at his ashram ,an aatma which thinks of overcoming it’s karmic debts by doing Ann daan ,Nidhi has a very responsible and hardworking husband and a very adorable daughter and no Mother in law or sister in law troubles too.

Apparently Nidhi seems to have best of life style and is not answerable to any one,she is independent,well educated and even has a designer shoe brand.Her b.day gifts are like a holiday in Paris or a Delhi pollution get away to Bhutan.

Still Nidhi is perpetually depressed, unhappy and suicidal.

I keep scolding  Nidhi as an elder sister would for her always victim mode attitude and tell her to be in gratitude for all what she has.

The other day her regular episode of thinking to die happened .l met her to councel her but what came out was shocking and has no answer or solution from me!.

Nidhi disclosed her Father was an eppillepsy patient and use to slap his wife( nidi s mother) often or hit her with slippers when he got a fit!

Her little eyes witnessed all this helplessly with tears.

The child hood trauma has still not left the vurnerable girl.

Any suggestions os.me members i can help her?